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Well that made me smile! I'm glad you got a good reaction out of reading my posts,from what i understand that doesn't happen too often LOL
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You should have more confidence in yourself, Rockchick but, having said that, I realize it is easier said than done.
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WOW...we are so alike! I have always dreamed i'd meet my soulmate in a place like that too,i dont usually think of it happening in a bar or at a party.
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I'd always hoped it would be reflective of their nature i.e. if I find them in a library or some other quiet place they are more likely to be quiet in nature, kind and not into multiple partners. It's the worst stereotype and absolutely isn't true but I can't help sometimes associating people at clubs. pubs and parties as those how would be unfamiliar with commitment.
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but i thought 'no i should go,you never know what will happen!'
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I've had this kind of optimism for years! 'It might happen', I say 'you never know'. I just cling on to hope. But I guess there is some truth in it - it really could happen anywhere. I went to a party the other night myself. My friend met someone but I didn't. It felt awful but I still held on to hope. What else could i do? I wouldn't force anything to happen because that's not what I want but at the same time I have to open situations in my life that will give me a chance.
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Yes,thats why i gave the bar a chance tonight. But it rarely pays off.
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It rarely pays off for me either. Somehow, though and for some reason I just keep on going with the idea that tomorrow is another day. But that's the thing with me, I have had opportunities in my life but I always held back because in my heart I felt that it wasn't right. My friend tells me I should take more of these opportunities but I just can't. I don't want to share these moments with just any one. I need it to be the right person - surely that is not wrong?