Today is Day 29 of my 31 no-alcohol experiment. I have felt best when I've said straight out, "I'm not drinking till December 31st." Although some of the harder-core drinkers in my extended family tried to slyly tempt me, most people have been supportive and even inspired. If you lie, I think you feel slippery and weasely; also people will argue with you. ("It's alright, have a martini, I'll get you a taxi.")
I recommend getting yourself water in a wine or cocktail glass immediately upon entering a drinking establishment, and holding it the entire time you're there. I also recommend leaving as soon as the party hits the alcohol plateau -- you'll recognize it if you're sober -- when the volume level suddenly booms and people start leaning on you.
Best wishes, and good for you!
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