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C33 · 12-29-2006, 07:49 PM

I am sorry for your hardship. I have never been in your situation, so it is very hard for me to offer any wisdom.

It looks like you are friends with your husband and that he is supportive of you moving back to Toronto. Feel grateful that you are not biting each other's head off and making one another miserable.

Count the blessings you do have: presumably, you are healthy and your children too, and your family in Toronto loves you and will welcome you with stretched out arms.

Sometimes, we need to be in a no man's land, longer than we think we can bear it. But you will find you have more strength than you think. Maybe you need to digest the breaking up of your relationship before you start all over again.

As for money, is there a way your parents could help? Couldn t you buy your tickets with your plastic money if it is easier for you to find a job in Toronto to pay off your debt in the U.K?

Keep hope in your heart.

12-29-2006, 07:49 PM	#2 (permalink)
C33 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 623	New beginnings... I am sorry for your hardship. I have never been in your situation, so it is very hard for me to offer any wisdom. It looks like you are friends with your husband and that he is supportive of you moving back to Toronto. Feel grateful that you are not biting each other's head off and making one another miserable. Count the blessings you do have: presumably, you are healthy and your children too, and your family in Toronto loves you and will welcome you with stretched out arms. Sometimes, we need to be in a no man's land, longer than we think we can bear it. But you will find you have more strength than you think. Maybe you need to digest the breaking up of your relationship before you start all over again. As for money, is there a way your parents could help? Couldn t you buy your tickets with your plastic money if it is easier for you to find a job in Toronto to pay off your debt in the U.K? Keep hope in your heart.