Don't worry! Hsiang-Lin, what you're going through is so normal, and even healthy, believe it or not. You're transitioning to adulthood, and please don't consider this to be condescending, because it is absolutely not meant that way, but you're experiencing growing pains. It won't last long, and retreat from your parents is a perfectly fine strategy now!
One trick is to be careful that you speak responsibly during this time, so that you minimize the possibility of hurting people and regretting it later.
You are so far ahead of the curve in so many ways. You are a great treasure to the people who love you and to the people whom you help, now and in the future. Feel what you feel, and allow it to assist you in your ambitious and beautiful path.
I hope your New Year leads you into a wonderful breakthrough.
Love,
Angela |