As a woman, I really don't understand why any man would be ashamed to admit he's a virgin. I have a lot more respect for a 30 yr old virgin than a 20 yr old man-slut who's had dozens of conquests. I think it's really sweet, and I'd go out of my way to earn his respect than some player.
Here is a thing some people don't understand: having sex does not teach you to be better at satisfying the other partner. Some of the best lovers are those who were more selective about who they shared it with and who want to make each encounter mean something.
And in some ways, it's better to be with a virgin, if you plan to have more than a one night stand. They're not as likely to be hung up on preconceived notions or emotional baggage from past bad experiences.
Never be ashamed about being selective. Never apologize to anyone. If the woman can't deal with this information, she was never worth your time in the first place.
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