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Originally Posted by Erock  Hey dude I've got a great idea for you. Tell girls that you thought you wanted to wait until marriage but since it hasn't happened yet you're saying screw it and just want to mess around a bit. That would sound very logical to me, and likely girls will completely believe that and have no problem with it.
Erock |
i've got a few problems with this. first, it's not true. second, it makes you seem inconsistent and weak willed, like "well, i don't really believe in sex before marriage, but i can't wait any longer, so i'm just gonna ignore my principles cause i'm desperate to get laid". and third, it gives a certain impression as to how you view sex and relationships, which in my case (and i think probably in the OP's case) is quite different from our actual views. so overall, even if you're right that girls would believe it and have no proplem with it, it would still be totally inauthentic for me and also be quite misleading.