Let me guess... you have been a very responsible as a kid, and now you are being rewarded by being given an even greater burden.
I have known something similar in my life, and I have to say this. Kids should never be therapists to their parents. If they have money to spare, let them get a f******' professional with it (as much as I distrust the whole profession).
It seems that they are not yet used to the fact that you are independent. Taking a time-out, and some time even farther from them, could help.
Another thing is that some people scream mindless threats at others when mad, without meaning them for real. You probably know your mom better if she really means it or not.
Ultimately, it is up to your diplomacy skills and how well you can handle yourself out of the situation, keeping both your integrity, their friendship and support. I'd avoid the situation where you'll have to make a choice between them - both choices (losing their support, and prostituting your mind for money) seem equally bad.  |