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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina  Erin and I have both had to end toxic friendships... never an easy thing to do. Generally I think it's best to do it with a written letter. That gives you a chance to express your thoughts clearly, to inform the other person that the friendship is over, and to give the other person time to let it sink in without feeling pressured to defend him/herself right away. The other person will probably write back, but once you've make your intentions clear, there's no need to respond again.
I don't recommend blowing the other person off or refusing to return phone calls, especially for a long-term relationship. How would you feel if someone did that to you? The direct approach is better and doesn't leave loose ends or create undue stress. |
Wish I had read this last year. Will keep in mind if the need arises. Thanks Steve.