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Originally Posted by marinik  And OP thought he had a problem!!! Your sexuality is part of your personality - who you are. If you are not able to embrace it, you have a BIG problem. Sex is the a very beautiful thing if done with the man/woman you truly care about with an open heart and mind. It is not dirty or messy! It is an art in its own kind. Just like a wonderful dance. You take responsibility for your own pleasure and try with all your being to give pleasure to the one you love.
Yes it can be ugly but only if it is "misused" and manipulated with. But when making love is something honest and wanted it is the best!
I agree that Hollywood has done great damage to a lot of aspects of life that are much more down to Earth then they are portrayed in the film industry. But saying sex is just this thing you do is not true.
And to answer the OP's dilema... learn, open your mind and soul and you heart and learn. It is a skill like any other. You need practice and it will all be just fine. |
I think you misunderstand me. I think sex is great, I have NOTHING against it. The point I was trying to make is that it is built up to be this huge thing that is bigger than it really is, and this distortion of reality causes all sorts of unnecessary anxiety in people. Yes it's a great way to bond, yes it's fun, yes it is something to be celebrated. But it is NOT something to be worshiped and obsessed over like the main stream media would leave you to believe.
I don't know how you can say sex isn't dirty. I'm not talking about morally dirty here, I'm saying its physically messy. There are all sorts of little details like this that you don't really find out about until you figure it out on your own. Just trying to bring a little reality back to the situation so people can get the over-hyped fake hollywood image out of their heads.