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Originally Posted by Alexjstrandberg  Thats saying that he is desperate to get laid as if getting laid was as important as drinking water. |
Obviously without water you die, but not getting laid doesn't necessarily mean you die physically. My parallel was about how something isn't that important when you get it regularly - but when you go without it for a long time, it becomes very important - especially something you've never done and you see "everyone" around you do it. I was referring to those posters who were telling the guy "sex isn't important" when it obviously is important if you haven't had it for a long time or never had it and you really want it ( and you start a thread on this forum about it
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It's his desperation for having sex that is preventing him from having it.
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There's probably some truth to that. But it's not the whole picture. However, removing that "desperation" for sex may be a good first step. Removing incorrect beliefs about women, sex, and himself would probably be another good step.