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Originally Posted by white  Hi,
I'm 31 years old and virgin. I'm feeling very depressed about it. I don't think that I'll able to find a girlfriend and if I do I think she'll probobly run away when she find out about it. What do you think that I do in that case (if we have sex)? Do I tell her or do I lie something? |
First of all, don't lie. You'll end up paying for it tenfold before it plays itself out.
Second of all, you don't have to be depressed. I'm a 22 year old virgin. While that isn't 31, it is still quite an outlier. And you know what I've noticed? I'm no worse off than all those non-virgins out there. Sex doesn't seem to make them smarter, faster, or better in any way. They suffer just as much as you and I; heck, they suffer more. They usually have to deal with a whole bunch of drama resulting from their activities. Most people sacrifice themselves to their genitalia, and end up paying much more than an orgasm is worth in the end. I'm not saying that sex is a bad thing, but it is just a thing. It won't fix your life.