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Originally Posted by seeker5  Saying sex is no big deal to a virgin, is like saying water is no big deal to someone who is very very thirsty and hadn't had a drink in a long time.
To the op: While it's true some women may be turned off by a guy with no experience, I'm sure you can attract and find women who would be turned on by the thought of them being your first woman and having them teach you and stuff.
Here's something that helped me in my early 20's when I felt I didn't have much dating or sexual experience. I felt bad about that and wondered what I had to offer to a woman. I made a list of all the great things about having little sexual and little dating experience. After looking at this list, it helped a lot in feeling ok with where I was. I can already think of several benefits to you, and the woman you'll be with for her to be your first one. |
You're right... but when I was a virgin, I had to FOOL myself into believing it, at least on a surface level, in order to have any chance of having sex... and lo and behold, I found it was true... sex was like... no big deal.
The annoying irony is that the hungry don't get fed. So even if you can't truly believe it's not a big deal... I think it at least helps to make the effort.