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Originally Posted by white  Hi,
I'm 31 years old and virgin. I'm feeling very depressed about it. I don't think that I'll able to find a girlfriend and if I do I think she'll probobly run away when she find out about it. What do you think that I do in that case (if we have sex)? Do I tell her or do I lie something?
English is not my first language so sorry if I make mistakes. |
Well my advise would be to work on any personality issues you have in meeting women and get comfortable with yourself talking with and interacting with women. The more work you do now, the easier it will be for you to find girl friends who will want to have sex with you. I have you beat by a few years for being a virgin. Unfortunately they did not have sights like this to get ideas from others, and so much info to change your limiting beliefs, like they have now with the internet. When I had my first time it was really no issue. I was like a kid at the candy store. And she was ready for a 18 year old mind, in a mid 30's body.
I cannot stress enough on the importance of working on you. Even now after finding myself single after a marriage.(wife died) I'm back at square one on trying to learn how to break out of the shyness cube. Or the what if this happens dilemma. And believe me its much harder when you bring baggage into the mix.(kids) Can I get a witness. There are plenty of people on here with good ideas to help you. If you’re single and committed to make a change you have little wiggle room to make excuses. Even I try to get out and meet girls when I can. But it's so much harder when you have kids. Best of luck to you.