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Old 11-16-2008, 01:54 PM   #84 (permalink)
{aspiring_to_clarity}
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That's great -- what if I said to you, you know, Aspiring, there's nothing wrong with you, I just hate you! You would probably immediately wonder what's wrong with you that I could hate you, right? Or at least you'd think there was something wrong with ME! You wouldn't say to yourself, I don't think, "Gee, well, there's nothing wrong here; she just hates me, that's all. That's fine, everyone's entitled to her opinion."
With all the wonderful coaching I've received I may very well be able to say that!

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What specifically do you hate?
The monotony, cold calling, doing the jobs of several people, the fact that it's a new company without established ways of doing things which also makes more work for me. I have actually come to see how much better it was at the job I quit. I wish that if I had to keep working a job, I could go back there, but it's not possible.

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By hating it, do you think you're making it stick to you?
Probably so?

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What are you willing to let go of?
Grumbling and complaining.


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What are you willing to generate?
That's a little bit harder to figure out. I don't know, really. I am still resisting being there, being stuck somewhere I don't feel I really fit, knowing that there is something out there I could be doing that would light me up.


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I think you'll find it has very little to do with the profession.
True. The profession itself is just fine. It's just that I'm not suited in temperament or I'm just a whiner .


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By the way, I LOVE you! THIS much! (please picture one of those schmaltzy little hearts with arms held out wide.)
Me too!
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