Hi to all fellow INTJs!
About partnering up: Very good idea, but kind of tough to implement. Why? Because we're one of the most independent and perfectionist people who are cautious of letting others do something we've pictured out in our minds. This is a tough barrier to break through until you realize the beauty of the MBTI working model, that everyone has strenghts to input into a bigger goal that is waiting to be fulfilled.
So who do you want to find? I'm thinking two people in particular. As mentioned earlier there are the doers - Sensory. There's plenty to go around since they amount to about 80 % of the population. But you don't find many of them over at forums like this one. The other person I'm thinking of is the inspirer - ENFP. This is the kind of spouse you want to find for yourself.
About the suggestion to synchronize planning and doing: An excellent idea. This is what Steve is saying with the Ready - Fire - Aim approach as opposed to the Read - Aim - Fire approach that is extremely fatal to INTJs (I now know why Steve talks about it). I took it by heart and just bought a domain, installed WP and went from there. I just let my plan form along with my own advancement of knowledge of what was possible to create. However, there's sometimes a part of me thinking that I should've first read through lots of blogs, looked around for information, content, advice and all such before embarking on the same journey. I then say to myself that if I'd done that I might never have started out in the end.
About making changes happen: It flows in three phases. iNtuitive people like to create innovative ideas in their minds, Judging people like to organize the overall implementation of them and Sensing people dislike all things related to change so they insist on putting them to action so that things work by routine again - for a while until the iNtuitive leader is again hatching a crazy idea that improves the system and process the people are working on.
Read my article on the
MBTI for some further insights or a crash course on what it's about.