I have a friend who has the tendency of becoming quite distant when he's in a relationship, things usually return back to normal after he breaks up with the girl (he's a bit of a Don Juan). At first this used to irritate me but I've come to accept this as a part of his personality (I'm sure there are plenty of things that I do in turn that are annoying to him) and more importantly I've told him about it instead of moping about it. It gives me time to explore other relationships that would have otherwise atrophied.
If you had a deepy meaningful relationship with that person then I suggest you do all that you can (within the confines of conscience and reason) to resuscitate it, but if it was just a relationship with no companionship then I suggest you let it go and go and find/create the real relationship you should be experiencing.
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