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Originally Posted by tboswell1216  Hi, you said, "I have also met and interacted with 17 other souls who have died, but not completed their journey and who needed some help to do so."
What do you mean they have not completed their journey? Do you just mean that they have not crossed over, or do they still have unfinished business here. Could you elaborate on what you meant and how you help them?
I am very intrigued by this.
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The way that I have come to understand the experience of "death" is that when the body ceases to function, the "Soul" leaves it permanently. At this point, the Soul is still experiencing a form of this reality, just without the ability to easily impact it or be impacted by it (similar to walking around in a 3D TV show where the characters go about their roles without any regard for your presence.)
In this state, you have a choice: You can either completely release all the things that hold you in place and move on to the next experience, or you stay in this inbetween place until you can.
As I stated above, the things that seem to keep Souls from making that move are most often extreme emotions such as Grief, Anger, Guilt, Shame, etc. They still feel too attached to something in this experience and until they can let go that attachment, they can't or won't cross over to the next experience.
When I work with these Souls in the Dreamtime, it is my duty to help them acknowledge a few things:
1. They are dead. A few times, the Souls I've encountered simply did not recognize that they were dead. They were still trying to figure things out (yes...just like the movie "The Sixth Sense"...).
2. They have a choice to move on and they can do so if they want to. A few times, I've worked with Souls who thought that they would be rejected or punished if they moved on. Their sense of Guilt or Shame kept them from stepping through the doorway to the next experience. I don't believe this is the case, but since I've not died, (at least that I can recall) I can't promise them this. I can only tell them that that's not how it works and that those that I have dealt with that HAVE crossed over confirm this with me.
3. The things that they are experiencing that are holding them back are their own constructions and are useless baggage. This is the hardest part for me and where I most often fail. I once tried to tell a woman who had committed suicide because her husband and son were both killed in a car accident (yes... just like the movie "What Dreams May Come"....) that her feelings of Grief and loss were misplaced because neither her Husband nor her Son ever
belonged to her in the first place; that they had accompanied her on a part of her journey for both her benefit and theirs, but that they had their own lessons to learn and that once they had done so, it was time for them to move on. And yet for her, the sense of loss was so profound she could not understand that. I don't think she could even hear me at that point.
I'm no expert and as I said, since I'm not a Medium, my interactions are limited to the Dreamtime. I'm only marginally proficient at Lucid Dreaming, and of the 17 Dreams I've had that I recall, only 8 of them were lucid. But, I've had enough "slaps up-side the head" by Spirit to reinforce that what I am experiencing in the Dreamtime is real and that what I am doing there is likewise real.