I know this is the last thing you wanna hear, but my opinion is that you should just forget her. Confront her about the messages and forget the relationship. You cannot make someone want to be with you. If she likes your boss, you won't be able to change that.
Be a man about it. What I mean by that is that you should have a mature discussion with her about this. Tell her you just want to know the truth and if that's who she wants to be with, then that's fine, but you just don't want to be lied to.
That's what I would do, anyway.
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