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Old 12-27-2006, 03:07 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Colm OReilly View Post
A written letter? That reminds me of breaking up with someone by passing a note in class! If you're going to be direct why can't you say this to them in person?
It depends on the person. If you've reached the point where you just want to end it and move on w/o a big debate, I think a letter is best because it's clear and unambiguous. A conversation can work as long as the other person isn't going to derail you and you're still able to end things decisively.

A friend of mine tried to end a relationship with a conversation several months ago, but the other person didn't want it to end. The conversation went in a totally different direction than my friend expected, and the unhealthy relationship continues.
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