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justforaday · 11-09-2008, 08:49 PM

Changes come when you really, really get fed up of being depressed..

For example: I was depressed for 4 years or sth and one day my body and mind said me you can´t live like this for the rest of your life, you have to move yourself, make changes..

1) I think you should think less, because i have been in that situation before..think less and just let yourself feel what you feel..
If you feel that you get along with someone and you see that others answer to your converstation then they really are interested in you...

2) Look around and watch what kind of people are around you, are they the same like you wanna be. I think that youre living in a wrong place, you have to move and move untill you find your place, im in that same position, people around me are bad and all they think about is drinking... think where you wanna be, learn about other places maybe youll fit somewhere else, but most of all at first give up searching, people come to you, but in an unexpected time... i found myself a friend...

3) its all about who YOU like, what kind of people you like, and when they dont like you you dont like them somehow...i figured it out myself...

4)you have to be somehow interesting for yourself, do many things be versatile or sth...

11-09-2008, 08:49 PM	#5 (permalink)
justforaday Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 20	Try this! Changes come when you really, really get fed up of being depressed.. For example: I was depressed for 4 years or sth and one day my body and mind said me you can´t live like this for the rest of your life, you have to move yourself, make changes.. 1) I think you should think less, because i have been in that situation before..think less and just let yourself feel what you feel.. If you feel that you get along with someone and you see that others answer to your converstation then they really are interested in you... 2) Look around and watch what kind of people are around you, are they the same like you wanna be. I think that youre living in a wrong place, you have to move and move untill you find your place, im in that same position, people around me are bad and all they think about is drinking... think where you wanna be, learn about other places maybe youll fit somewhere else, but most of all at first give up searching, people come to you, but in an unexpected time... i found myself a friend... 3) its all about who YOU like, what kind of people you like, and when they dont like you you dont like them somehow...i figured it out myself... 4)you have to be somehow interesting for yourself, do many things be versatile or sth...