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I dont think your doing anything wrong. Spirit guides have different personalities like you and I. Although they tend to resemble that of their material being. (you)
My spirit guide, Fletcher, is difficult to understand also. He and I are much alike in mannerisms and humor and such. But when it come to opinions on every day decisions we are sometimes polar opposites. He will contradict me on many thing, which i appreciate.
I think you should be thankful your spirit guide gives you such physical warnings, or at least thankful that you are able to recognize them.
I dont know if Fletcher is the quiet type. (hes not) haha. or if I have trouble recognizing, but were closest with our spirit guides during sleep, so try talking to your's then.