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shesaboutspirit · 12-27-2006, 07:21 AM

The metaphysical perspective that whatever you focus on grows is what I believe Alvin is pointing out so well.

I've spent years, and years (I'm 45) staring into my dysfunction trying to figure it out. I get awarenesses...but for the most part, I can see that I keep repeating the same patterns over and over, with a slight upgrade because of the awareness. Not nearly enough to make that kind of process worthwhile.

I for one am glad to be reminded to focus on what I do want, rather than what's not working. Everything within me is thrilled that I'm being reminded of this truth.

thanks for the question and great answers.

Pam

12-27-2006, 07:21 AM	#16 (permalink)
shesaboutspirit Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Washington State Posts: 154	thanks Alvin! The metaphysical perspective that whatever you focus on grows is what I believe Alvin is pointing out so well. I've spent years, and years (I'm 45) staring into my dysfunction trying to figure it out. I get awarenesses...but for the most part, I can see that I keep repeating the same patterns over and over, with a slight upgrade because of the awareness. Not nearly enough to make that kind of process worthwhile. I for one am glad to be reminded to focus on what I do want, rather than what's not working. Everything within me is thrilled that I'm being reminded of this truth. thanks for the question and great answers. Pam