I'd suggest being honest with her about what you're doing and why, because she may not know.
(It's crazy the crazy things people do that they don't know is crazy!)
It'd also be good to tell her what you think, in your opinion, is a good thing for her to do and what you want for her out of that.
Come from a caring but firm place, because you have every right to choose the kind of people you want around you.
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