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Originally Posted by carenkh  How interesting this thread was revived!
I'm choosing to stay away from alcohol - I want to THRIVE! |
I came to the 12 step programs and sobriety through another program which changed my life in 1986. For some time my attendance at meetings was what my life revolved around. Later I found myself not getting what I needed to progress in my life there.
I have remained sober since 1986 but find my experience, strength and hope in other settings today.
I think a lot of people outgrow the level of support in traditional meetings and I believe that is part of the process as we seek out other like minded, conscious people as our circle of support.
Would I recommend 12 step programs to people seeking help with an addiction? The answer is a qualified yes. I think the rigidity of the rooms sometimes (often) gets in the way of further recovery and is also often a substitute for the original compulsive behavior.
If I stop progressing I fall back into other behavior that is not really in my best interest. I think it is wonderful that you have discovered that drinking is still not in your best interest. Congratulations!