Colm has a point though, is it that you've grown and changed since you met this friend? And why did you attract this friend into your life? This is a hard question to answer, but is vital to answer, or you'll just attract another friend the same. I'll add another difficult question, what have you gotten or what do you continue to get from this friendship? Are you sure you have moved on?
Once you're sure of your answers to these, You will be in a great position to deal with the details, like what to say when she rings. You will be genuinely busy doing other things, and you'll be able to sincerely wish her well.
Good luck
Joy to you
Hazel
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