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Old 11-05-2008, 11:33 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Originally posted by {aspiring_to_clarity}
When that happens or I have to ask for clarification, I feel like I'm being looked down on. It may be in my head,
Most likely it is. This is something I came across when I was working for my previous supervisor. Every time I felt inadequate I noticed the same theme playing in my head: "I'm not good enough"

When I realized how loudly and often this song was playing, I was able to see the impact it had on me and then choose the higher choice.

The next time you ask for clarification, pay very close attention to that little gremlin in your head. You choose or the gremlin does, you decide.
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