Originally Posted by ballaholic
lol. im an idiot. i flew down to try to fix things with her. and i basically flew down for her to confess to other lies and to basically tell me she wants to try with him. ah, stupid me. wasted 600 because she wasnt being straight with me. LOL.
I have done similar things when I was blind with love and hope, and really deeply feel and understand your move to fly there.
Awesome! The best 600$ you probably have spent in years. Just imagine how much time, pain and hassle you have saved yourself.
We all have told you this is not working out from your descriptions (e.g. if she was really committed to make this long-distance relationship work, she would have understood your pain and made it cristal clear to the other guy that she cannot have contact with him because this jeopardizes her relationship to you; etc). It is just so freaking difficult to see when you are involved yourself.
Full closure will need some more time I guess, but the long distance is your best friend in this respect.