ask yourself, if you wanted to be higher value then the girl you were talking to. would you 1) stop her and tell her that she is cute in a geeky way or
2) tell her that you think she is beautiful in that pink shirt she has on
nowadays, its very "cool" to put a girl down to make you feel good about yourself. basically trying to make her feel like **** or less then her best. thats NOT the way to go
in essence there is a way to go. building her up instead of pushing her down. I want you to imagine, a jay z- type walking to a girl and saying " damn that dress makes you look sexy in a hand model type of way?" or would he come up like " ma, that dress... is amazing you looking real good tonight" being funny is for lamers with low self esteem when you can approach a woman and say whats on your mind and have the guts to not want something from her in return shows how high up you really are, and it doesn't stop there, doing that will also put her up on that same high that you are on.
increase both of your values up at the same time
I want you to realize that you have the power to build any women up, making them better just by you being in their presence or even able to communicate some with you. She can feel more sexy, more intelligent, be more dedicated, have a better life.
Really women live sad lives, they walk around with their high heels, with their XOs bag, reading Cosmo or seventeen, watching reruns of Sex and the City,waiting for life to turn around. we have have the power to bring the excitement back, the love back, the pleasure back, really making them love life. in your presence she can be a 9.5 and guess what? when you build her up to a 9.5 what do you think you are, in her eyes? yea thats right a 10! when you can give a woman a life she enjoys in her eyes your king You make her into a 9.5. Who is that dependent on? YOU! She feels the better life that you can and do give her, you make her stronger, wiser, sexier, Without you, she can't have that. What does that do for your value?
of course just cause you give a girl a compliment doesn't mean you can just say anything thing and not supplicate. there is a subtle art that can be learned (thats what this site is for right
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first to truly come from this "high place" you have to believe you are high I mean not just think it but feel it, you have to smell of it, I mean your b-o has to be "high" lol how does that sound right? your b-o being high.... when I say high I mean high status. you have to come from a high status place of authority
next giving up your desire to have results and just enjoy the process. Do and say what you feel and not give a skinny dog about what happens. If any given compliment whatever gets negative results, you kick that "dirt" off ya shoulder, because you did the process as best as you could. You improve the process later, as you can, but in the moment, you live it and love it.
like I said above there are going to be times when a woman reacts rudely to what you have to say? what do you do? in that situation tell her that you was just being friendly tell her that you really think she is cute but her attitude is wack, and move on simple right? think about it if your high status then why deal with some who is playing games, being stuck up ect ect when you have a line of women wanting to use you in their dirtiest freakiest fantasies. be a man!
this is very different from what you are used to. assuming everything is the basis of the method or style. assuming that you have the power to say or do what ever it is that you want to. giving your self the permission to be free and get what you want out of life. you have to really believe that you deserve all the goals and dreams that you want/have
until next time