ballaholic: You are an arse to her, treat her badly, then demand her to do as you say, then you wonder why she wants to test the water with another guy?
What's wrong with you?
Obviously the fact that she had to think about it, and the fact she's confused about what to do means she still loves you, and that you being an arse is just making it that much harder.
If you want her back, bring back the love. Stop with all the demands and rules. Stop with the games and tricks. Just let her do what she wants, but be there to support her when she needs it. She needs to know that you care about her, it's not your job to protect her.
This guy is probably giving her something you aren't. Compassion, understanding and someone who will listen.
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