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Rockchick26 · 10-27-2008, 01:16 PM

I tried this for 2 years and it backfired on me horribly. I was told it was VERY bad to think about the person all day long,or even for hours. Then you are reinforcing that you do not have them,and your plan will backfire like mine did. I had a picture of what i wanted my guy to look like and i kept it in a "wish box" for almost a year. Pft! The only person i met who looked like this guy was a GIRL who looked like him.

Good luck everyone,though! I just learned its better to not obsess over wanting someone and just forget about it,at least then you wont be focusing on what you are lacking.

10-27-2008, 01:16 PM	#19 (permalink)
Rockchick26 Banned Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Minnesota Posts: 3,037	I tried this for 2 years and it backfired on me horribly. I was told it was VERY bad to think about the person all day long,or even for hours. Then you are reinforcing that you do not have them,and your plan will backfire like mine did. I had a picture of what i wanted my guy to look like and i kept it in a "wish box" for almost a year. Pft! The only person i met who looked like this guy was a GIRL who looked like him. Good luck everyone,though! I just learned its better to not obsess over wanting someone and just forget about it,at least then you wont be focusing on what you are lacking.