I agree with justin, but why knowingly put your financials under pressure. I liked his idea of "loving agreement with my wife". I would like to explore this angle too. Angela is also right. Perhaps I am making an unilateral decision. Yes she resents my family members to some extent, but that is for some other issue. My wife likes to keep the house clean & tidy & she feels that my mother & sister do not put in the necessary efforts even after bringing it to their notice time & again. I agree with my wife on this issue. My mother feels that my wife overdoes the cleanliness part & my sister really fails to understand the hygiene factor( her health has recently become stable after she had severe problems managing schizophrenia).
I am not very sure if wanting another baby is an expression of my wifes lack of power as Angela pointed out.
As Alex pointed out I don't want a second child, but now I feel that dwindling finance was really on the back of my mind.
After reading all your feedback, I think I would be able to take a decision if I understand the areas of Love(connectedness & loving agreement with spouse) and Truth(see if I am in denial of something from my career/Finance point of view).
Am I right?
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