the more you focus negatively on her - the more you will crystalize it into your reality.
there are certain "letting go" techniques and I suggest you try them each time she pushes your buttons.
part of the problem is that she knows she irritates you - and this delights her. Don't give her that!
Childish games - like being extra nice to your little sis to make you jealous - an old tactic. You gotta laugh such things off.
And don't think she owes anything to ya - if she doesn't help you find work or whateva - thats her perogative. Just release the resentment. You've let it build up - time to let go.
Once you become acquainted with the Devils tricks - you find he doesn't have so much power over you.
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