We are here to procreate. This is extremely normal and natural. Biologically you are doing what a man naturally does: seeing if the woman would be a good candidate for someone to bear and raise his children. If she would be a good mom. Don't forget there's a reason for sex, and that is BABIES (Yay!).
Realize that your other goals and dreams have nothing on thousands and thousands of years of evolution. This is all new stuff in the scheme of things. We're only supposed to hook up and have kids and survive. Our quality of life has made other options seem more important since basic survival is something we more or less take for granted, and don't think about.
So go on about your life, just accept that this is normal, and whatever you do, don't be pressured into actually having kids with her.
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