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Originally Posted by Dev  ... parents can only give birth to a child, his/her destiny is in the hands of God. I differ on this. |
Me, too, if it means you are supposed to mindlessly pop out babies and trust god to keep 'em fed. It's an astonishingly irresponsible and manipulative thing to tell someone.
On the other hand, you appear to have made a unilateral decision yourself about where your money goes: you are supporting your mom, sister, and niece, whom your wife doesn't enjoy living with. I can see where your wife might feel some resentment about this, and her family would back her up. She wants to feel like the queen in her home, and instead, her preferences are subjugated to yours. Wanting another baby might just be an expression of her lack of power here.
You might want to look at the issue of power and partnership in your marriage.