I have a different idea: refuse to see it as me-versus-you. It's NOT a battle and there is no "winner". When someone tries to bully you, ignore them and keep going. By refusing to engage in a confrontation, you take away their power.
Talking "street" just sounds silly to me. It sounds like something Vanilla Ice would try to do. Don't try to be more like them. Be yourself. Maybe some of the "street thug"-mentality people are picking on you because they see you're not caught up in their silly game of egos and street "cred".
I have something for you to look up: google "passive leadership". It's the concept that one can be passive and still get what he/she wants & lead their peers. Leaders aren't the most aggressive people in society. The most aggressive people end up in jail, receive a restraining order for spousal abuse, or get fired from jobs for having anger problems. The true leaders have confidence, restraint, and intelligence.
Can you identify with anyone in your community who has some traits that you admire? Success, achievement, charisma, good philosophy, etc. ? Instead of trying to pull yourself down to the "street" level, elevate yourself by aspiring to be like the successful role moles you identify with.
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