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Originally Posted by Halffull  1. Learn to listen (active, empathic listening) |
Listening is what i do best! I talk about 10% of the time and listen 90%. If God wanted us to speak more than listen he would have given us two mouths and only one ear
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2. Have interesting things going on in your life
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But how are they going to know about those things unless you are able to tell them? And how do you just make that stuff known without sounding like you're bragging or trying to get attention or trying to dominate the conversation? And what if you don't have anything interesting going on? lol You can't change into a more exciting career or suddenly have kids that you can talk about.
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3. Be able to communicate these things in an effective way/become a good storyteller.
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Well i'm screwed here LOL This is the exact reason (i think) i have problems,cuz i suck at communicating. How can you improve your "storytelling" skills? I don't even tell jokes cuz i suck so bad at speaking.
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4. Leave them wanting more.
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Be more specific LOL What if they didn't want what they got,how can they want more of THAT? lol