caveman, i was just coming on this forum to post a question, pretty much exactly the same as yours, when i came across your post. Thank you. I am becoming very frusterated with constantly failing at goals that i know perfectly well i can achieve. I have achieved those same standards at previous times in my life.
i think one of the main reasons behind my self sabotage is that i am afraid to be happy. i am afraid that if i have something to lose and then lose it, i will be worse off than if i had never known the happiness i might achieve through becoming successful at my goals. does anyone else have any thoughts or advice on this that may help the caveman, myself or anyone else who is sabotaging their goals...?
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