Thanks again to everyone for your advice. It has prevented me from doing something potentially stupid. I have decided to not contact her anymore and drop the whole thing. If she really cares then one day she will let me know, but I am not going to put my life on hold for that.
Now, one more predicament I have in this situation. I invited her to a game a couple of weeks from now. I don't want to burn my friendship with her, but I am debating on whether or not it will be good for us to see each other in a couple of weeks. I am trying to decide if I should tell her not to come... Any advice? Last weekend was fine, we hung out and we didn't have any serious conversations so it was good. But as evevera states, you can't be friends with someone you're in love with. I'm afraid seeing her in a couple of weeks will only put me back to where I started. At the same time, we are friends, and it may be one of the last times I see her for a long time, if ever.
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