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Originally Posted by freddy  "What can i say to him that will help him? Or is this a lost cause and i'll just have to talk to him every day as he slowly dies? "
I would want to know why you would want a low energy like this to bring you down every day? At the end of the day he will do whatever he set in his mind to do. Stop being held hostage to this guy threats of killing himself.
Now I know this comes off very harsh as I re-read myself but really, nothing your going to do is going to bring his girlfriend back or make him like his parents.
PS.. can I email you every day, and tell you all my problems, and how my wife left me, and life really sucks becauce my dog ran away, and I got a ticket ,and the world is after me, and I have no where to hide and'... you get my point.
I might handle it differently, if it was a friend living down the block. good luck |
Well i consider this guy a friend,and you wouldnt just drop a friend because they are depressed would you? Thats when they need their friends the most! I think it would be very cruel to do that. Besides,its not like he has that many problems,only the two. And he does talk about lots of other things besides problems,we talk about music,movies,computers,our day,etc. Its not as negative as you think. He even listens to me when i complain about stuff.