Thanks aelle for your reply. I've found many great tips, but I agree with you that what works for one couple may not work for another.
I am trying to view this as an opportunity to actually be more romantic and loving. We've lived together for the past 2 years and I do find myself taking things for granted and becoming too comfortable with each other. I like the idea of sending him lots of surprises in the mail, you know like the kind of romantic gifts that you'd get each other when you first start dating. I think it will encourage us to become more creative in expressing our love for each other. I like how you sent cookies, thats a great idea!
I also think it will be a great opportunity to grow as an individual, become more independent, but also be able to bring more to the relationship.
I wish you all the best aelle with your relationship.