[Rockchick26]

I've had this same problem forever,and even after all these suggestions,nothing has changed. I don't get it. I think i'm cool,interesting,and a very good friend,yet nobody gives a crap cuz they've already got friends. Of course there are exceptions but 99% of the time i can't make it work.


Every single night when i go to bed,for the last 20 years or so,i have visualized myself surrounded by friends,surrounded by love,and what i get in real life is only 1% of that. I wish i knew the answer for you,cuz i'd like to use it for myself too. I totally understand what youre going through though. Actually the last few months i've been trying to find somebody to go to a concert with,(actually i've done this countless times,usually with no results)...but i personally messaged about 5 or 6 people that i know are going to this show,yet NONE of them have replied to me about it. I know,like someone said,dont take it personally...BUT (this is a big but!) if it wasnt personal,then at least SOMEBODY out there would want to reply back! You cant email 100 people and get no replies and then say "well i dont think it was personal..." Come on LOL

Maybe there is some wierd secret way to make friends in this life that you and I havent figured out yet. The only way i have made friends was through my job,cuz these people were forced to get to know me. But as far as making friends online,in public,in bars,people just dont need more friends apparently. Sorry to be so cynical LOL I guess i should shut up now