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Old 10-22-2008, 02:07 PM   #8 (permalink)
ZHereford
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Originally Posted by Tex2008 View Post
I am tempted to tell her that if she does not see anything with me then we no longer should talk to each other. Sounds harsh, but it may be the best thing. Should I cut her off completely?
Only if that's what you need to do. If you only want one kind of relationship with her, then you have no choice.

On the other hand, you could carry on as you have and drop the expectations. It's obvious that although she cares about you, she is not at all ready to advance this relationship. You are at different points in this and want different things from each other. This happens a lot.
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