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Cron · 12-23-2006, 05:14 PM

Hi Colonel. I don't think RU is refusing your advice, I think he is refusing to accept the reality of the situation.

RU, unless people are pissed off, very few human beings like saying things that might be hurtful to others. Instead they will phrase things in a non-hurtful, but less true way. It isn't about you, it just makes them feel better. I think that just happened to you.

I think, ss predicted by others in this thread. that your GF got tired of you and broke up with you.

If you want to avoid this kind of misery again in the future go by what you see, not just what people tell you......especially with sex,dating, and romance.

It is over and I think you are better off......if you heed that lesson.

You should look for a new job, limit your exposure to her, accept that that you will temporarily not feel happy, and that you should keep busy.

I can't emphasize that last point enough. That and finding someone new ( when you are happy again ) is the best way to get over a break up.

12-23-2006, 05:14 PM	#43 (permalink)
Cron Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 420	Hi Colonel. I don't think RU is refusing your advice, I think he is refusing to accept the reality of the situation. RU, unless people are pissed off, very few human beings like saying things that might be hurtful to others. Instead they will phrase things in a non-hurtful, but less true way. It isn't about you, it just makes them feel better. I think that just happened to you. I think, ss predicted by others in this thread. that your GF got tired of you and broke up with you. If you want to avoid this kind of misery again in the future go by what you see, not just what people tell you......especially with sex,dating, and romance. It is over and I think you are better off......if you heed that lesson. You should look for a new job, limit your exposure to her, accept that that you will temporarily not feel happy, and that you should keep busy. I can't emphasize that last point enough. That and finding someone new ( when you are happy again ) is the best way to get over a break up. Last edited by Cron; 12-23-2006 at 05:17 PM.