Alright, then.
A few posts back, Wulfen says that girls will often say:
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"It's not you, it's me"
To protect his feelings. Girls, as a general rule, prefer good feelings over hard, cold truth. That's why they say "I consider you as a friend"
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You just quoted your girlfriend as saying:
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she told me that probably it's better not to continue to ruin my life.
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And a bunch of other stuff that amounts to the same thing. Don't you get it? She's trying to slide away gently, compadre.
If you stand up, take a deep breath, and be a man about it, you might actually gain her respect.
Just say "I'm sorry this isn't working out. I want to help you, but I've had enough. Maybe we can be friends."
And that's it. Walk out, for God's sake. She will be caught off guard, and she'll see a side of you that she didn't know existed. She will now see you in a new light - strong, confident...decisive.
You won't do this though. I'd bet money on it.
Funny thing is, you're just hanging around right now waiting to see what happens. Hoping. Crying. Whining.
If you don't take charge of this situation, the situation will take charge of you.
That's all I've got to say to you.