Thanks for the advice so far. I was studying for the GMAT tonight and found myself distracted because I was thinking about her. I can understand this if it was a week or two after breaking up but two years? Jim, you could be right, maybe I am stuck in the past and need to move on despite what I am feeling... I'm just not convinced yet that she doesn't have feelings for me, but I could be wrong. Should I just wait for her to say something and drop it until then? She is the type of girl that would not initiate a conversation like this so I highly doubt she will ever bring it up. I almost want her to tell me she never wants to speak to me again for me to be convinced this will never go anywhere... is this being too persistent? I don't want to put my life on hold waiting around and wondering so I think I either need to hit this head on or drop it all together. I don't want to lose her friendship, but I question if staying in touch is healthy if I have feelings for her and she does not. They always say you end up marrying your best friend, but maybe I am buying in to that too much. I am tempted to tell her that if she does not see anything with me then we no longer should talk to each other. Sounds harsh, but it may be the best thing. Should I cut her off completely?
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