First of all: if you fear losing, don't play the game. That's the whole point, you take the risk of losing, so there is something to be won.
Secondly, you say that "playing hard to get" works... but you never get the guy. So does it really work for you? Or should you, perhaps, try being less hard to get?
(I personally don't like the game of hard to get at all... if you play hard to get, you're not going to be my partner - period).
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