Maybe she just needs time to decide what to do. Before she can find another job, she has to decide what to do, maybe that's her problem. Growing together is almost the same as talking about what matters in live and I think a job should not be the most important thing in live. When it makes her unhappy you have to find out why and just listen to her. Maybe that can help her more than any advise at all.
You should always put effort into a relationship to keep it healthy, keep talking is the most important advise.
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