These people have used you. They are not your friends, I'm sorry to say. If you feel up to it, be honest with them and tell them what you think of their behaviour. Let them know you've been honest with them, and that you'll be honest with their husbands as well.
If you don't feel up to it, just don't return their calls. Make some new like minded friends. Maybe there's a local group of the steve pavlina forum in your town. Or another local group you can join while you're there. Find people who share your beliefs and values.
Basically, care for yourself first. You deserve it. You don't need to be dragged down by these people.
Love to you
Hazel
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