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Originally Posted by robc  If she knows that, it basically kills the attraction, she knows she can have you at any time and that really brings down her perception of your value.
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I totally see what you're saying, and I think you might be right.
Like I said I am swamped between Work and School, my social life is taking a huge hit. I guess one of the things that's compounding my problem is that I don't see a way out. I mean between work and law school, I'm putting in twelve hour days Mon-Thurs. Friday through Sunday, I am pre-emptively getting work done or catching up. I try and make time to go out, but its a lot easier said than done. Not to mention, I am not exactly a social butterfly to begin with (I'm no wallflower either). However, it's just not in my character to go out of my way to introduce myself to people.
And this situation isn't going to change for at least another four years, which like I said compounds the problem since I think I am viewing this as my last shot at something significant for awhile. All in all, the whole situation is pretty depressing.
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I forgot to thank you guys for the advice. I'm still not sure how I am going to play it, but your opinions are definately helpful.