Hmm, I had a physical problem that got in the way of relationships, too. When something is pretty bad and relatively rare (I think this is the key), I don't believe in loving your body/ become stronger mentally sort of thing. And a lot of doctors who are not specialized will not know what to do or they will say something to the akin of forget about it.
Sivodna, I would suggest looking to see if there is an association/support group with men with this problem. If one exists, they can sometimes recommend someone. If there isn't such a person in Ireland, I say hop on the plane and go to England. If you're concerned about flying over for just a consultation, just take Ryan Air or something inexpensive like that.
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